Luke 15:1-3, 11b-32
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OBSERVE:
This parable is undoubtedly the most famous and most commonly cited as the hope for the lost. It is typically entitled “The Parable of the Prodigal Son,” because of the younger son’s prodigal spending on his dissolute lifestyle. But it could just as easily be entitled “The Parable of the Prodigal Father” because of the father’s prodigal generosity. Or it could even be called “The Parable of Two Lost Sons,” as we’ll soon see.
The first verses of Luke 15 give us the context for the parable. Jesus has become a magnet for those who have been shunned by the “nice” people:
Now all the tax collectors and sinners were coming near to listen to him. And the Pharisees and the scribes were grumbling and saying, “This fellow welcomes sinners and eats with them.”
It is important to remember that for the Pharisees and scribes the definition of righteousness was separation from and superiority to sinners. So they are indignant that Jesus keeps company with tax collectors, whom they view as collaborators with the Roman government, and with sinners.
So, Jesus tells a series of parables that point out his passion and purpose, which is not to ostracize the lost but to reconcile them to God.
He tells a story about a family which has universal appeal. Almost all of us come from families, and we can easily identify with the family members — the patient, longsuffering father; the wandering, irresponsible younger son; the responsible and resentful older son.
For the purposes of the story, the younger son asks an astonishing favor of his father:
“Father, give me the share of the property that will belong to me.”
Even more astonishingly, the father complies!
So he divided his property between them.
It would be as though an heir said to his father “you’re going to die anyway, and I can’t wait that long. Let me have it now!” The insult to his father is extreme.
Of course, the son’s purpose in cashing in his inheritance check isn’t so that he can invest or start a new business. He wants to party! He leaves home and cuts himself off from his family of origin, with its values and demands — and soon spends his entire fortune.
A famine occurs, which finds the young man desperate, having made absolutely no provision for the future. He has truly lived only for the pleasures of the moment, with no fall-back plan.
He does the unthinkable, for a Jewish man:
he went and hired himself out to one of the citizens of that country, who sent him to his fields to feed the pigs. He would gladly have filled himself with the pods that the pigs were eating; and no one gave him anything.
Not only is he forced to work with unclean animals, he hungers for their unclean food. His descent into the dregs is complete.
Note the irony — the boy’s father had given him his half of the inheritance, no questions asked. Now:
no one gave him anything.
He is alone, bereft, impoverished. He is at his lowest point.
When he “comes to himself,” the reasons given have little to do with his feelings for his father or a sense of regret. His motive for returning home is, frankly, financial:
But when he came to himself he said, “How many of my father’s hired hands have bread enough and to spare, but here I am dying of hunger!”
Although this hardly seems a noble motivation for repentance, he at least seems to have a sense of perspective. He doesn’t expect to be restored to his previous status:
I will get up and go to my father, and I will say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you; I am no longer worthy to be called your son; treat me like one of your hired hands.”
We note that in his rehearsed speech, the son does acknowledge that his behavior has violated not only his personal relationship with his father, but has also violated God’s law. As we so often see in the teachings of Jesus, there are two dimensions to our relationships — one dimension is vertical, addressing our relationship with God; the other dimension is horizontal, addressing relationships with other people.
This is most clearly illustrated by the teaching of Jesus about the essence of the commandments:
“You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your strength, and with all your mind; and your neighbor as yourself” (Luke 10:27).
However, the rehearsed nature of the boy’s memorized speech suggests that the son may still be insincere, and his motives may be purely self-serving.
Notwithstanding the motivation of the younger son, the father’s motivation is clear:
But while he was still far off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion; he ran and put his arms around him and kissed him.
The son doesn’t even have the chance to finish his rehearsed speech before the father interrupts him:
But the father said to his slaves, “Quickly, bring out a robe—the best one—and put it on him; put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. And get the fatted calf and kill it, and let us eat and celebrate; for this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found!” And they began to celebrate.
The son has declared that he is no longer worthy to be called a son — but the father sees his son’s return as no less than a resurrection! The robe, the ring, the sandals on his feet, and the feast are all signs of restored inheritance. The son may have cut himself off from his family and severed the ties of affection, but now he is completely restored!
The younger son had wasted his money on empty parties with false friends; now he experiences a genuine celebration with those who truly love him!
And now we have the second act of the story, the tale of the other lost son.
The older son is out in the field, presumably doing a hard day’s work. And of course as he comes in from the field, he can’t help but hear the celebration. His suspicious nature is revealed when he refrains from entering his own house, but instead:
called one of the slaves and asked what was going on.
His fact-check reveals his brother’s return — and the older brother is not happy!
Then he became angry and refused to go in.
Once again, the father must be the peacemaker, the reconciler, who goes out to reason with his older son. Just as he ran to meet his younger son, so now he leaves the party and seeks out his angry first-born.
The older son is aggravated and aggrieved. He cites his years of loyal service, working like a slave, and his consistent obedience. And he faults his father for never throwing him a party.
The sibling resentment is palpable. The older brother accuses his younger brother of devouring his money with prostitutes. Just for the sake of clarification, earlier in the parable Jesus had merely said that he squandered his property in dissolute living. It is the older brother’s prurient imagination that goes to the next level in his accusation.
And we can hear the whining comparison:
you have never given me even a young goat so that I might celebrate with my friends.
‘But for this loser,’ he sneers:
you killed the fatted calf.
He is demonstrating how unappreciated he feels, and how unfair the situation seems to him. To the older son, this is a complete miscarriage of justice.
But the father points out that the issue is not justice but mercy — and even more than that, it is about love.
He tries to reassure his older son that his love for him has never wavered:
“Son, you are always with me, and all that is mine is yours.”
And the father strives to get his older son to see what he sees:
“But we had to celebrate and rejoice, because this brother of yours was dead and has come to life; he was lost and has been found.”
He appeals to his older son’s sense of family, reminding him that this was his brother, whose life has been restored and who has been found again.
APPLY:
This parable strikes home with us — literally. Every member of a family can identify with the story — the grieved father who worries for his dissolute son; the irresponsible child whose poor choices lead to a downward spiral; the responsible and judgmental child who refuses to forgive or be reconciled.
The truth is, both sons are lost. But there is a difference. The son who squanders his inheritance and winds up in the pig sty comes to his senses. Hunger and want can powerfully focus the mind, and can be a great motivation for repentance.
But the self-righteous older son is just as lost, because he refuses to accept his brother and restore the broken relationship. In order for his relationship with his brother and his father to be reconciled, he needs to be willing to forgive.
The truth is, the aggrieved party here is the father. The younger son didn’t take anything from his older brother. He wasted only his own half of his father’s estate.
And the father has forgiven and restored his lost son.
Most of us can certainly identify with the younger brother when we have been confronted by the consequences of our bad decisions. But we also may see ourselves in the older brother when we are resentful of those who seem to “get away” with stuff.
God’s love and mercy far exceeds our ability to comprehend his compassion.
RESPOND:
Many years ago, I attended a Ministerial Alliance meeting in the city where I was a pastor. I happened to be serving one of the largest churches in town, where a great many of the wealthy and powerful citizens attended.
I sat across the table from the director of a local mission. He was a dynamic Christian, committed to leading the poor, the drug dealers, the addicts, and the marginalized into a relationship with Christ. I admired him greatly.
But as I looked at him, dressed in a black leather jacket, wearing a beard and long hair, with tattoos and pierced ears, something occurred to me that had never occurred to me before.
I said to him, “You know, in some ways your job is easier than mine. The people you minister to know they need Jesus. My people are well-fed, successful, and prosperous. I have to convince them that they need Jesus.”
The truth is we all desperately need the grace, mercy and compassion that Jesus offers. Self-righteousness can alienate us from God just as surely as a dissolute lifestyle.
Lord, I confess that I have been in the shoes of both the young son and the older son. I have made poor choices, and I have recognized my need for grace. And I have sometimes been judgmental and unbending. I repent of both sins, and find my relationship with you restored. Amen.
PHOTO:
“The Father and his Two Lost Sons” by Fr Lawrence Lew, O.P. is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivs 2.0 Generic license.